kids and growing up wow...

so this year two big things will happen. My neice with graduate from high school and my son will graduate from middle school.  these big big changes and something ive been fighting to not have a part of. lmao growing up and letting your kids grow up is soo tough. I dont dig this at all. I dont want them to be independent and to leave me. i know that this is what most parents shoot for but for me its like an ending to a part of my life iam not ready to end. I know they soo want away from me. lol they need there privacy  and i get it. but id rather not do it. How do you just let go of your kids?? If somebody knows the answer to this cause iam finding this incredibly hard. my neice graduating means my sister and my neice will be moving farther and farther away. it sucks. This year is  a year of serious changes and it sucks. haha i barely see my sister as it is and now shes gonna be further away and i enjoy time with my neice and shes gonna be gone as well. change is good moving on is good. but how do you get your brain to not beleive your losing something? 

Dance Moms...

Ok so i watch this show. I love this show. This show is about little girls in a competition dance group. How the mothers react to their kids being involved with this group. Now the teacher abby lee miller has been a dance coach for years and have had tons of dancers that go on to carrers in dance. she has a tremendous success rate and is very very talented. She is very very tough on these little girls and the mothers have a shit fit and yell and talk shit about the teacher all the time. There jealous of one of the little girls cause shes the best.  The mothers are not the girls. the girls are happy to be doing what they are doing. and love there friends in the group. And when one wins there so happy for each other. NOw my question is Is it right for these women to treat the teacher like shit cause they beleive there kid should be the best but isnt. they dont like it when the kid gets told there doing things wrong or what not. For me being a dancer is hard hard work and to be really really good at it. you have to start young and have those teachers who will not just tell these kids there good. I disagree with the way they treat this lady. she is in the right completly. They are getting what they are paying for shes the best and all you have to do is check her track record to see that. I think its ridiculous that they get mad when the one girl is getting the wins and the admiration. shes the best they need to get over it. abby tells them if they do right and tells them if they do wrong. even the best girls gets it. I dont know watch the show its on lifetime on tuesdays. you tell me what you think!                                                                                                                                                  
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