Sunday, March 4, 2012
kids and growing up wow...
so this year two big things will happen. My neice with graduate from high school and my son will graduate from middle school. these big big changes and something ive been fighting to not have a part of. lmao growing up and letting your kids grow up is soo tough. I dont dig this at all. I dont want them to be independent and to leave me. i know that this is what most parents shoot for but for me its like an ending to a part of my life iam not ready to end. I know they soo want away from me. lol they need there privacy and i get it. but id rather not do it. How do you just let go of your kids?? If somebody knows the answer to this cause iam finding this incredibly hard. my neice graduating means my sister and my neice will be moving farther and farther away. it sucks. This year is a year of serious changes and it sucks. haha i barely see my sister as it is and now shes gonna be further away and i enjoy time with my neice and shes gonna be gone as well. change is good moving on is good. but how do you get your brain to not beleive your losing something?
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You don't let go of them, that's what parents are for! To keep holding on even if you don't want them too! I had a lot of struggle with this when my younger brother (whom I've raised since I was 12..) graduated high school and left for a college that's 2 hours away. I cried and cried and cried LOL But it turned out that HE needed me more then I needed him afterwards. They are growing up and we can't stop them. Only teach them the right paths to take and pray to god they get there! They maybe away in distance, but never in heart and that's the important thing :)
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